Have you noticed that time seems to just march on by? I am not ready. Really I am not. Slow down, I can't keep up!!
Yesterday my sweet husband said to me that I am like the contractor/scheduler. I am the one who is responsible for scheduling what work needs to get done at the house and by when.
So, are you with me sisters or what? How can I possibly know how long it will take and by when he can get it all done, when he is doing a bunch of stuff for the first time and single-handedly. Please tell me. I LOVE the idea of being in charge but somehow I think it is in name only. (giggle)
Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining! By doing the work ourselves we are able to do a bunch of things that we couldn't do if we had to pay for the labor to have someone else do it for us. On the other hand, I have no idea how long it is going to take him to run new plumbing to the island for the sink. I really have no idea what is it will take to run the water to the ice maker or move all the outlets six inches to the left so they won't be behind appliances. I really can't fathom how long it will take to install the cabinets or tear down the staircase railing and start over.
So here is what my calendar looks like right now...
Notice all those tiny blank spots. YEAH, ME TOO! I am so stressed about it. Too much to do too little time. My man is going to have a broken back by the time he is done. He will have to keep working to relieve him from his retirement. He is such a good sport.
The lesson I am learning in all of this is that we are living a dream together. We are in this together. Cliche or not, "Love Concurs all!" I know we can do this and when we are basking in the afterglow of moving to the island some day in the near future, I am sure we will be so jazzed that we did it all ourselves and get to enjoy it and take pride in it.